Our Dossier is Complete!

Our Dossier is complete!

I (Ana) cannot even begin to describe just how happy I am to be done with this step. This has been at times very frustrating and it has been my life for the past 3 months.  Part of me misses being in control and having something to do, but a HUGE part of me is extremely excited that it is shipped off and safely in the hands of our family coordinator (Kelsey) at America World. We received an email from Kelsey on Friday and if all goes well our DTE (Dossier to Ethiopia) date will be 7/12/13. This is the date we will be put on the waiting list for a referral!!

Now all we can do it wait. Right now our wait time is approximately 3 years. It is so hard to think we have to wait 3 years to bring home our child/children. I have waited for 10 years now to be able to bring our children home. I have prayed for our house to be filled with laughter and cries and happiness and full out temper tantrums. I/we are ready for it all. It is exciting to know that at the end of this wait the end result is a baby in our arms!

So what will we do to celebrate while we wait? This seems to be a reoccurring question between Shawn and I.  We do want to celebrate our DTE date every month, but we're not quite sure how yet. At least then we will have something small to kind of look forward to every month. We are not sure yet but we do have a month to figure that out.

One thing that we are doing is making bracelets, necklaces, & key chains that say 'One Less' on them. They are made with round copper blanks and all but the key chains have silk ribbon strung through them so you can attach it to your wrist or neck. The reason we, (I say we but Shawn is really the one making them) are making these is so that we could spread the word about orphans.  There are so many orphans in the world and it is so sad. So we are trying to decrease that number by one or maybe two and if the word spreads my hope is that more people would consider adopting.

If you would like to purchase a bracelet, necklace, or key chain you can visit our store at www.richlifeadoption.storenvy.com.
Thanks again for visiting our page.
Shawn and Ana Rich

Almost There.....Sorta

Well we are starting month three of the “paper chase” and we are almost there.  Our home study is complete and all of our documents but one is ready to be sent.  We have one final document that we need from USCIS in order to be able to send our dossier off and go DTE (Dossier to Ethiopia).  Honestly, I am pretty amazed that we are this close.  Our hope was to be ready to send our dossier off sometime in June and it looks like that will happen.

Even though this was our goal there was a part of me that thought we would be lucky if everything was ready by September.  I know not very positive!!  I guess the 11 years of waiting has me being cautious……ok negative.

Early on when we started this journey we decided that Ana would be the one to lead the charge on building our dossier and because of her we will be ready to send it off in June!!!

I am excited about this next step but nervous about the waiting. 

I wonder what we will do to celebrate our DTE?

How should we prepare?

What books should we read?

 Is there more training we should do?

Will we save enough money?

Are we crazy for doing this?

As I am sitting here writing this and wondering what to type next I glanced over at a book sitting on my desk.  It is actually the team devotional from our most recent mission’s trip. 

The page it is open to says this,

“But, this also means you are free from carrying the big load.  You don’t have to do it all yourself!

You don’t have to save the world.  Jesus took care of that.  You don’t have to convict people.  The Holy Spirit does that.  You don’t have to know all the answers; God is taking care of that.  All you have to do is be a branch that stays tight with the vine, and God’s fruit will be produced through you.” 

I guess I will take that as a reminder that God is in control!!!

Peace,

Shawn

Paper Chasing

Once we applied for the adoption and were accepted we then entered into the "paper chase" phase of the adoption process.  This process includes getting our home study done and compiling our dossier. So it may not be as bad as the picture above would imply but it is a lot and it is overwhelming at times, but oh so worth it! 

Our hope is to have our dossier completed and mailed off some time in June.  I (Shawn) actually like this part of the adoption, as this is the only part that we really have control over.  We decide how fast or how slow we go, when we have appointments and when we mail the final packet.  After that we enter a time of waiting were we have no control.  For a control freak this will be hard!

 I (Shawn) feel like we are pretty good at waiting but it is getting old!  Tomorrow Ana and I celebrate our 11th wedding anniversary (Yeah, its hard to believe she has stuck with me that long.)  and for the last 10 years of our marriage we have desired and tried to have kids.  So for us there is a practical side for this adoption.  Yes, we want so badly to enlarge our family of two, but more than that, deep in our hearts we want to aid in caring for and loving a child, well 2 in our case.  We desire to see them grow up in a happy and healthy home. We want to love on our children and nurture them to the very best of our ability, but first that means we have to paper chase and then wait.

So while the chase is on, we hope you will join us in praying for the process to go smooth.  That our home study and dossier would be completed with no hiccups.  Pray for us to have continued peace as we navigate this new journey towards having a family and that we would stay committed to our plan of saving to fund our adoption and that the finances would be there as we need them.

Shawn and Ana